He seeks an easygoing gal who's got lots of unconditional positive regard to give. She seeks a tender little flower with an old soul, because that's so totally rare today. Unresponsive to direct scolding, he's easily manipulated by her kinder, gentler, more passive-aggressive hippie ways. He's not into growing up any time soon, and she thinks marriage is a totally Western tradition or institution or whatever and she'd rather do something more like what they do in Kenya or somewhere where it's all way more impromptu and totally cooler.